When my husband first suggested going on safari, I’ll admit I was the reluctant one.
He’s always been passionate about wildlife and conservation, dreaming of seeing lions, elephants and cheetahs in the wild.
But for me, the idea of early starts, bugs and stepping out of my comfort zone didn’t exactly scream “dream holiday.”
Fast forward to today, and I’ve been on 10 safaris. I loved every single one of them. The thrill of spotting a lioness with her cubs, the serenity of watching elephants at a watering hole, and the sheer beauty of an African sunset—those moments are unforgettable.
So yes, it’s possible to turn even the most hesitant partner into a safari convert. If you’re facing a similar challenge, here’s how to gently win them over—and create a holiday you’ll both love.
Safari Isn’t the Only Thing to Love About Africa
A safari doesn’t have to be the only thing you do when you visit Africa. If your partner has other interests, there’s a world of activities to explore that could win them over.
For instance, when I plan trips for clients with a hesitant partner, I often recommend destinations like South Africa.
One couple I worked with split their holiday between a luxury lodge in Kruger National Park and Cape Town.
While one partner enjoyed twice-daily game drives, the other balanced it with spa treatments and relaxing by the pool.
Later, they explored Cape Town’s vibrant food scene, hiked Table Mountain, and toured historic Robben Island, where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned.
If your partner loves wine, why not add a few days in the Cape Winelands to visit Stellenbosch or Franschhoek?
Or perhaps they’d prefer to end their trip with a week in Mauritius or the Seychelles, indulging in pristine beaches and turquoise waters.
The key is finding a balance. If you can show them that Africa offers something for both of you, they’re far more likely to say yes.
With the in mind, here are 10 more incredible options to suit even the most safari-averse partner:
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Spa and Wellness Treatments
Many high-end safari lodges feature luxurious spas with treatments inspired by the natural surroundings.
Your partner could unwind with a massage or facial while listening to the sounds of nature.
Some lodges offer outdoor massages or wellness experiences, allowing guests to relax while soaking in panoramic views of the bush.
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Bush Walks and Nature Trails
For those who enjoy the outdoors but prefer not to go on a game drive, a guided bush walk is a perfect alternative.
Led by experienced rangers, these walks focus on the smaller aspects of the ecosystem—such as plants, insects and birdlife—offering an immersive and educational experience.
It’s a peaceful way to connect with nature and gain insight into the environment.
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Cultural and Community Visits
Many safari destinations offer cultural excursions to nearby villages, where guests can engage with local tribes and learn about their traditions.
These visits may include craft workshops, dance performances or traditional cooking lessons, offering a deeper understanding of the region’s heritage.
Participating in these cultural exchanges adds a unique dimension to the safari experience.
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Hot Air Balloon Safari
For something truly magical, consider a hot air balloon ride over the African landscape.
This serene experience provides breathtaking aerial views of wildlife and scenery.
Many balloon safaris conclude with a champagne breakfast in the bush, creating a memorable and romantic moment.
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Photography Workshops
For photography enthusiasts, many luxury lodges offer professional photography workshops.
These sessions, often led by renowned photographers, teach guests how to capture the beauty of Africa’s landscapes and wildlife.
Even for those not on game drives, photography workshops provide an excellent opportunity to explore the natural world from a different perspective.
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Private Dining and Sunset Experiences
For those who appreciate good food and stunning views, a private dining experience can be arranged, such as a romantic dinner under the stars or a sunset cocktail cruise.
Many lodges offer bush dinners, where guests dine in exclusive, scenic spots, allowing them to immerse themselves in the beauty of the African wilderness.
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Fishing and Water-Based Activities
For a tranquil experience, some lodges near rivers or lakes offer catch-and-release fishing or boat excursions.
Activities like canoeing or kayaking on Africa’s iconic rivers, such as the Zambezi or Okavango Delta, allow guests to explore the environment at a more leisurely pace. Water-based safaris offer a unique opportunity to observe wildlife from a different vantage point.
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Star Gazing
Africa’s crystal-clear skies make it one of the best places in the world for stargazing.
Many safari lodges offer private stargazing experiences where guests can relax under the vast African sky. Some lodges even provide professional astronomers who can help guide you through constellations like the Southern Cross and other celestial wonders.
Sleep outs, under the stars can also be arranged either at your lodge or out in the wilderness!
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Cooking Lessons and Learning Local Cuisine
For those interested in local culture, many lodges offer cooking classes where guests can learn to prepare traditional African dishes.
These hands-on lessons give you the chance to interact with local chefs and learn about the ingredients, flavours and cooking methods that define the region’s cuisine.
It’s a fantastic way to connect with the culture while taking home new culinary skills.
Guests may even join in preparing meals for the evening, creating a truly immersive dining experience.
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Art and Craft Shopping
If your partner has a love for art, many safari destinations have local markets or artisan shops where guests can purchase handcrafted goods, such as paintings, jewellery and traditional crafts.
These make for meaningful and unique souvenirs, capturing the essence of the region.
How to Plan a Safari That Works for Both of You
Planning a trip that caters to both you and your partner can feel overwhelming, but that’s where I come in.
With 10 safaris of my own and countless holidays planned for clients, I’ll take the time to understand both your passions. Whether it’s luxury spas, photography or food and wine, I’ll create a fully costed itinerary that ticks all the boxes.
Plus, with my knowledge of African destinations and their logistics, I’ll ensure your journey is seamless—from flights and transfers to lodge recommendations.
During a free consultation, I’ll help you brainstorm ideas and craft a plan tailored to your needs.
There’s no obligation to book, but you’ll leave with a clear vision of how to make this trip unforgettable for both of you.
All it takes is a quick call or email to get started. Email me at [email protected] or call 01372 677999 to set up your consultation.
Not Read My Guide Yet?
If you’re still weighing up your options, download my free guide, How to Find Your Perfect Safari.
In just 10 minutes, you’ll gain insights into the top safari destinations, the best times to visit, and insider tips to avoid common mistakes.
It’s packed with advice to help you take the first step toward your dream African adventure.
